This is one of those moments where I wish I could talk to the 20-year-old me….I always felt the need to feel vindicated, whether I felt wronged by someone, or to ensure I had the last say in the matter, one way or another.
Three things I learned this year that have given me a much clearer perspective:
Forgive.
Other opinions or judgements don’t define who I am.
It’s better to be happy than always try to be right.
It’s easier said than done….as much as I wanted to rip “Miss Vitriol 2019” a new one face to face for the horrible things she said to me, it felt better to write how I was feeling in this blog, as I know she won’t see it (and maybe five people will at most).
Hindsight is 20/20….hopefully this will help my foresight become clearer when people try to push my buttons.
Lane's Back Nine - my online diary as a 50-year old 
Hi Lane! I’m not sure how things work on here. I hope you get this. I’m enjoying reading your posts. They are candid and real. You have a gift for writing:) From- A Lane Blue Fan 🙂
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Amen! Keep moving forward. The older I get the less I want to argue with anyone. And the smaller my circle becomes. And the lower my tolerance level! Just keep swimming Lane, just keep swimming…..
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